Some dear friends get faraway from us;whatever be the reasons may be due to misunderstanding etc. But once gone their return is even not the same as before some knots do exist. Therefore it’s said “never break a established relationship, whatsoever”, because their return is next to impossible or rather impossible.
रहिमन धागा प्रेम का, मत तोरो चटकाय.
टूटे पे फिर ना जुरे, जुरे गाँठ परी जाय.
But we should move on;move on from the lost ones, lost friendship, So called difficult break-ups, deaths of a near and dear ones etc. Time do heals, we must gradually move-on from the obdurate attachment slowly and steadly we will see that we have found the prodigious shore eventually, by the Grace of God. Just a bit of patience is required.
Patience is the key to many door to opulence.
It’s not one’s fault for the inability to understand by the other person whom he/she is attached. What actually differentiate is the crux of the matter, the integrity and always whoever it is, if he/she is on the right side then one need not to be worrisome because as we all know our Creator is the Best judge and therefore it’s said about karma, universe returns, Good begets goodness etc. Always be honest and truthful. Don’t ever hesitate to present the facts to falsify things.
A solemn obliterate approach for the Hireath leads to utter disdain which leads to a person in vain almost growing oneself in the sea of non-prosperity.
What’s gone is bygone.
THEREFORE, it now reminded me of an middle school poem by one of my favorite POETS. which I am certain those who know hindi would relish it to extreme.
जीवन में एक सितारा था
माना वह बेहद प्यारा था
वह डूब गया तो डूब गया
अंबर के आंगन को देखो
कितने इसके तारे टूटे
कितने इसके प्यारे छूटे
जो छूट गए फ़िर कहाँ मिले
पर बोलो टूटे तारों पर
कब अंबर शोक मनाता है
जो बीत गई सो बात गई
जीवन में वह था एक कुसुम
थे उस पर नित्य निछावर तुम
वह सूख गया तो सूख गया
मधुबन की छाती को देखो
सूखी कितनी इसकी कलियाँ
मुरझाईं कितनी वल्लरियाँ
जो मुरझाईं फ़िर कहाँ खिलीं
पर बोलो सूखे फूलों पर
कब मधुबन शोर मचाता है
जो बीत गई सो बात गई
जीवन में मधु का प्याला था
तुमने तन मन दे डाला था
वह टूट गया तो टूट गया
मदिरालय का आंगन देखो
कितने प्याले हिल जाते हैं
गिर मिट्टी में मिल जाते हैं
जो गिरते हैं कब उठते हैं
पर बोलो टूटे प्यालों पर
कब मदिरालय पछताता है
जो बीत गई सो बात गई
मृदु मिट्टी के बने हुए हैं
मधु घट फूटा ही करते हैं
लघु जीवन ले कर आए हैं
प्याले टूटा ही करते हैं
फ़िर भी मदिरालय के अन्दर
मधु के घट हैं,मधु प्याले हैं
जो मादकता के मारे हैं
वे मधु लूटा ही करते हैं
वह कच्चा पीने वाला है
जिसकी ममता घट प्यालों पर
जो सच्चे मधु से जला हुआ
कब रोता है चिल्लाता है
जो बीत गई सो बात गई
— हरिवंशराय बच्चन
Hey readers, had you ever studied this in the course of the book? I bet you did. Please, Comment your thoughts below will love to hear your thoughts.
Aquib.!n¡ght.
I apologise, no I haven’t. I am afraid I do not know.
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It’s OK. Amanda.
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I agree what’s gone is bygone, but I wish I had studied Hindi so I could read the poem. I’ll try to translate it using Google translate. Hopefully, it’ll be at least 80% correct. 🙂
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Thanks Diana, it would be great. Keep smiling.
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Giving up so easily is just not the right way. Until you are sure of the reason why it happened Aquib ji. Kabi kabi ziddi hona bhi acha hota hai. Ki jo chahiye vo itni asaani se nai jane de sakte.👓👓
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Yep… That’s right too.
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Wonderfully written 🙂
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Thanks a lot, glad you liked it. ☺️
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Beautiful words.
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Thanks
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You are Welcome ☺☺
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A wonderful post and yes Harivansh Rai Bachan poems are beautiful !! I have read that poem very well in class 9th or 11th but not sure if Said it for elocution!! Beautiful poem
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Thanks a lot, yep his poem are very good. I think most of the Indian student must have read or came across, esp this one.
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Yes absolutely and welcome 😊
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Your post made me nostalgic taking me back to my school days. A great poet Harivansh Rai Bachhan ji was! Though I don’t recall having read this one, I enjoyed reading it now!
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Thanks a lot maam. Glad you liked it.
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👍👍👍👍👍😖
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☺️☺️🙄☺️
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It’s by Harivansh Ray Bachchan, right? I had read it in Hindi, in class 7. Unfortunately I’ve forgotten a few hindi alphabets
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Oh, yep, Well try to recall, ask your father, may be.. Keep smiling . ☺️.
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Yes. 😊 Sorry it got posted twice. Network problem
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No problem. ☺️
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It’s by Harivansh Rai Bachchan, right? I had read it in Hindi, in class 7. Unfortunately I’ve forgotten a few hindi alphabets
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Yep…
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😊😊
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Beautiful words!
Wish I could read hindi, but what you wrote reflects the beautiful message of poem.
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jeevan mein ek sitaara tha
maana vah behad pyaara tha
vah doob gaya to doob gaya
ambar ke aangan ko dekho
kitane isake taare toote
kitane isake pyaare chhoote
jo chhoot gae fir kahaan mile
par bolo toote taaron par
kab ambar shok manaata hai
jo beet gaee so baat gaee
jeevan mein vah tha ek kusum
the us par nity nichhaavar tum
vah sookh gaya to sookh gaya
madhuban kee chhaatee ko dekho
sookhee kitanee isakee kaliyaan
murajhaeen kitanee vallariyaan
jo murajhaeen fir kahaan khileen
par bolo sookhe phoolon par
kab madhuban shor machaata hai
jo beet gaee so baat gaee
jeevan mein madhu ka pyaala tha
tumane tan man de daala tha
vah toot gaya to toot gaya
madiraalay ka aangan dekho
kitane pyaale hil jaate hain
gir mittee mein mil jaate hain
jo girate hain kab uthate hain
par bolo toote pyaalon par
kab madiraalay pachhataata hai
jo beet gaee so baat gaee
mrdu mittee ke bane hue hain
madhu ghat phoota hee karate hain
laghu jeevan le kar aae hain
pyaale toota hee karate hain
fir bhee madiraalay ke andar
madhu ke ghat hain,madhu pyaale hain
jo maadakata ke maare hain
ve madhu loota hee karate hain
vah kachcha peene vaala hai
jisakee mamata ghat pyaalon par
jo sachche madhu se jala hua
kab rota hai chillaata hai
jo beet gaee so baat gaee
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Waooh! Amazing it is.
Thanks for translation ✌
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Hey thanks for the read, glad you liked it.
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Nice poem of Mr Bachchan. Only certainty is change. So relationships may change too.
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Thanks a lot sir. Glad you liked it.
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Heart touching
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Hey, buddy thanks a lot for appreciating it. Long time. How are u?
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I am good.I was ill.
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Good to see back.. ☺️
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Back to school days…….
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Yep. Thanks for giving it a read. ☺️
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What’s gone is bygone.. Yeah, sad but true😩
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☺️☺️. Yep, keep smiling
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Wonderful post.
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Thanks a lot. Glad you liked it
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Hey, I just nominated you for the Blogger Recognition Award. Do check out my recent post for details. No compulsion of acceptance though.
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Hey, thanks, glad to hear this.. Have a great day..
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Great post aquib bhai …
You explained everything in a very good way
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Oh, thanks buddy.. Glad you liked…
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Their return is not the same as before. True
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Yep..
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I like it Aquib jee. It’s true that i don’t understand the poem but i believe that we should never falsify the truth. 😊
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Yep, Novus agreed with you. Thanks a lot.
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Back to school days. Loved the way you wrote on what’s gone is bygone.
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Thanks a lot Sara, glad to hear that from you.
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I wrote the first paragraph of this poem behind my poetry diary when I was in school and it always inspired me to deal with all that life brought my way. There is this inherent fluidity in his poems such that every word seems to be written solely in your life’s context. Thanks for sharing the full version of it 🙂
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Yeah well said Neha (my cousin’s name is neha, I am feeling like you are my sister 😋😋, please nevermind my nonsense ).
Yeah, and to be honest my sister (biological) I swear wrote in her dairy she was a big “dairy girl”, the same poem.
And agreed with what you said completely and to move ahead fighting and overcoming the obstacles are a sign of a exemplified person.
Thanks for your remark, really Means a lot. 👍👍👍
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It was a pleasure to across this post 🙂
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